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Well, to avoid these foreplay booboos, here’s a list of 10 Foreplay Tips.
FOREPLAY TIPS IN GENERAL
First foreplay tip
Take a shower and be properly groomed. I’m not talking about going to a salon here. Just ensure that your breath and body are clean. Also, if you’re planning to do some ‘ poking ’, ensure that you cut your nails down. Nothing hurts more than long nails, or can be more disgusting ( in case you poke into something and er… take out something with your nails ! Yuck ! )
Second foreplay tip
Put on some music. Foreplay can be a very embarrassingly noisy event ( wet slapping noises, an escaped fart or two, etc. ). To hide these sounds, drown them out with a bit of sexy music.
Third foreplay tip
Don’t OVER-tongue him / her. Don’t ram your tongue into your partner’s eardrums or throat. It can be a complete turn off if he / she feels the need to tilt his / her head ( from having clogged ears ) or feels the need to gag.
Fourth foreplay tip
Don’t embarrass him / her. I once advised a client to ‘ start foreplay early during the day ’ and mentioned some of my ‘ foreplay moves ’ like rubbing against each other, dry humping, footsie playing, etc. Well, I guess my client got carried away as she tried footsie playing with him during a business dinner. She thought she was being ‘ naughty ’, he thought it was annoying. Moral lesson ? Know WHEN to make your moves.
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FOREPLAY TIPS FOR HIM
Fifth foreplay tip
Don’t twirl, tweak and twist her nipples hard. No. Despite what you often see in adult films, she really doesn’t like it if you play too roughly with her nipples. They need to be caressed, not manhandled.
Sixth foreplay tip
Don’t be the one to request to turn the lights off. Almost all women have body image issues. So don’t do her a favor by asking to have the lights off. In contrast, she’ll immediately think you find her body offensive in some way. If she’s not exactly the ‘ cover girl ’ type, don’t over compliment her either because she’ll know you’re lying. Instead, just tell her you prefer women with ‘ curves ’.
Seventh foreplay tip
Don’t go for G-spot stimulation if you don’t know what the hell you’re doing ! Sure, G-spot stimulation can bring her almost sexual nirvana but it can be painful for her if you don’t know what you’re doing. I’m not saying don’t attempt it. Rather, be very attuned to how she responds to your fingers.
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FOREPLAY TIPS FOR HER
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